Why Do They Ghost As Soon As You Match Their Energy?
Nov 4 - Get More Matches On Dating Apps Online Class
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I’ve hit a rut in my dating life and would love to hear your opinions on this subject. The problem that I’ve been facing over the last couple of years of dating is feeling like I’m meeting a lot of men who say all The right things, I believe that we’re on the same page and that these men are interested in me, and then when I begin to slowly reciprocate some of their energy and interest all of a sudden they pull back.
It’s becoming such a problem that I’m beginning to develop some trust issues. I don’t understand why I keep meeting so many men that are expressing all of this interest in me and then the second I start to reciprocate some of that back and start to bring down my walls a little bit, it’s as if they’re no longer interested.
How can I trust men when it feels like so many pull back the second I begin to show the interest they’ve been expressing to me? Why even build me up when they have no intention of seriously dating me to begin with? I’m so frustrated and could use your help. Thank you!
In This Episode:
How people weaponize silence to get what they want and avoid conversations
The difference between scaring someone off and turning them off
Can you talk someone out of liking you?
Why do people ghost when we start matching their energy?
Do you tell your date they smell?
Is cheating more painful for men than women?
TW: Discussion about assault
Nov 4 - Get More Matches On Dating Apps Online Workshop
Topics In This Class:
How to work the algorithm to see more compatible profiles and increase your visibility
Red Flags in profiles that let you know someone isn’t available
Messaging techniques to help you get more responses and salvage dry conversations
Swiping strategies so you don’t lose out on matches with potential