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What Does "I Need Space" Really Mean?

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Mar 28, 2021
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what does it mean if your online partner says they need 'space' and 'time' after telling you they're under stress? they also made it known that they are not tired of the relationship or you. they just need 'space'.

Understand that most people will tell you that their need for space has nothing to do with you even if it does. They’re going to say it’s not about you because they don’t want to get in to a long drawn out discussion. They want, well, space.

In my experience, when someone says they need space what they actually mean is they need space away from the relationship. That’s not to be confused with needing sopace from you. Usually, it means they’re in over their head or feeling overwhelmed in some way and need to take a step back.

When someone says they need space, give it to them. As frustrating as it is to hear, they don’t owe you a detailed explanation. Maybe they’re struggling with mental health issues. Maybe it’s something more personal. The only thing you need to believe is…

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