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Should She Be Concerned He Has A Female Roommate?

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Jan 18, 2022
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I've been dating a guy for 6 weeks, shortly after he moved to my city from a different city. He's been setting himself up with looking for places to rent before he considers buying in the city.

He has a dog which has made it harder for him to find somewhere to live but now he's found somewhere with a housemate, who is definitely his type, who he thinks is really lovely, and also has a dog.

It's kind of making me less interested in him, partially because I'm 36 and really want to be with someone who's focused on me as I'm looking for something long-term, as is he.

I'm actually worried he'll end up spending loads of time with her and really like her and waste my precious reproductive time.

First, never be impressed by someone who says they’re “thinking” about buying a place. Anybody can say that. At one time or another, I’m sure many of us have “thought” about buying a place only to admit to ourselves we don’t have the credit or down payment.

Never be impressed by something anyone can do …

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