Never Let A Man Make This Mistake Twice

A few months ago I (23F) met a guy (30m) at a lounge while out with friends. The last time I saw said guy, he made an unsolicited and offensive comment about my body. After hooking up, while I was still naked he looked me up and down and said: (my name..) we need to go to the gym and tone up. Given the context, it was clear he meant **I** needed to hit the gym and tone up. This wasn’t the first time we were intimate either. Once I got home and started to stew on our interactions in the last six weeks leading up to the event I told him I was no longer interested and deleted his contact. This was my first introduction back to the dating scene after a year long hiatus, but not the first time I’ve been “negged” by a dude.

I am 5’7 and wear a size 10-12 women's jean, which would probably be classified as mid-size. I am no super model but I put pride into my appearance and believe I am a nice looking woman. I found his comment highly hypocritical because said guy wasn’t exactly ripped himse…