Never Give A Guy That Ghosted A Second Chance

Hi, Christan! My friend wanted to set me up with one of his friends. Things were going well between us in the beginning. We were texting almost daily, flirting, and then he suddenly ghosted me. I saw him online talking to others so I decided to move on, figuring he lost interest.

Two weeks after the ghosting I posted photos of my new look on social media after a visit to the salon. He saw them. The guy texts me that very day apologizing, saying he got busy with work, and replied to our ongoing conversation from before. I ignored it. My friend asks me the following night how things are going between his friend and I. I was honest that I was ghosted. I told him since clear communication is important to me, his friend ghosting me only to then hit me up weeks later after I look more “attractive” to him with my new hair wasn’t attractive.

My friend starts to go in on me saying I’m not owed his friend’s time, he had a life before me, and then starts telling me about his friend’s mental heal…