It's What They Do Between Dates That Matters

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After 4mons of matching, small talk, me unmatching, and us matching again for the 5th time, this guy asks me for my number and to make plans. He seems to find me each time I delete and go back on the apps. We decide to grab a drink the following week. I'm not a big texter, and he isn't either so text on and off until the day we meet. He does let me know that his work schedule is tough given he is understaffed. The first date was a lot of fun. He texts me as soon as he gets home saying he had a great time and would like to see me again. We make plans for lunch 5 days later. Another great date, and again he texts me as soon as he gets home to say he had a great time and asks to plan another date. I responded like I did the first time saying I also had a great time and look forward to seeing him again.

At this point we're texting more often but still not overwhelming which I appreciate. The following day after our second date, I let him know I…