How Long Should She Wait For Him To Commit?

He goes off the grid some nights and she doesn't hear from him. What's going on??

Hi, I've been seeing a guy for 5 months. At the beginning when I asked if he was looking for a relationship, he said...A relationship is not what I'm looking for, so I'm not going to lie and say it is, just to please you and tell you what you want to hear. But I'm not saying that it'd never be what I want. Fast forward, 5 months, I go to his on average 2/3 nights a week, sometimes more, sometimes less...he is absolutely lovely to me when I'm there and makes me feel amazing and says I do the same for him. We don't just have sex, we play cards, watch movies, chat, listen to music etc we both have a great time, I stay over and he cuddles like I'm his dream come true. In the morning we go for coffee and I drop him to work.

He works hard and says that sometimes he has private work in the evenings, on these evenings he mostly goes off the radar and might not reply to me for 24hrs or more. When this happens my mind goes wild imagining he's with other women as I always have in the back of my…