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Does This One Thing Determine If You'll Be Ghosted After Sex?
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Does This One Thing Determine If You'll Be Ghosted After Sex?

Is "open to non-monogamy" code for something else? Plus, does your sociosexuality determine if you'll be ghosted after sex?

In This Episode:

  • From the Coded Language In Dating Profiles file: What does “open to non-monogamy” mean, and is it a sign of someone looking to cheat or for a hook-up?

  • Is sociosexuality a thing, and does it determine if you’ll get ghosted after sex?

  • Why aren’t women getting married anymore?

Here’s the letter we answer in this episode:

I took the plunge and got on a dating app (OkCupid). I’ve noticed some guys list an option “open to either monogamy or non-monogamy” in the profiles. Should I take that to mean they really want non-monogamy but put monogamy as well to get more matches? I view it like how guys will put looking for hookups as well as long/short term relationships so they have more options but not really being honest with what they want.

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